If you are like most people then you probably believe that being selfish is a bad thing. Of course, we are not here to tell you that you are wrong, but the truth is that if you are a young woman in a relationship with a millionaire, there are situations in which it is useful to be slightly selfish. Who wants to share her millionaire with others? So, in case your last relationship didn't end well, this is the right time to do some experiments and see whether being selfish from time to time is actually beneficial or not. Younger women dating older men should definitely try this, so they can analyze the reactions of their partner and how they feel when they are a little bit selfish. Obviously, we're not making suggestions, so you can become a dictator or a bully in dating rich older men, but you must sometimes do this in order to preserve the relationship and make it last forever.
In order to achieve this, we have prepared a short list of three common facts which prove that younger women are not selfish enough to date millionaire.
1. It is crucial to avoid committing with your man or let him do the same, even if he is interesting, attractive and rich. Keep in mind that dating a rich man is not justified in case you have not created a strategy for commitment. Although as a young woman, you will probably have many things to do, you must find a way to pay the necessary attention to your partner. You should find out what love means to him and show him that you appreciate what you have together. Don’t let him think that he is less worthy than your career, college or friends. Of course, this also doesn’t mean that you should set everything aside. The truth is that there is enough time for everything; you just need to come up with a plan and find balance in your life.
2. There are situations in which younger women always let their date choose the place where they will date and very often they don’t complain even if the place where they are going is boring to them. Keep in mind that this doesn’t make your date happier. Feel free to give your own suggestions and don’t hesitate to tell them that the place they have chosen is not suitable for you. You won’t improve your relationship if you say YES all the time. Use your right to contribute to the decision making process.
3. Finally, you think that you it is fine to meet all their requirements and fulfill all their wishes. Don’t forget that a relationship is a two-way street – you give something and you get something in return. No one should be put in a position to satisfy the other side all the time. This means that it is perfectly fine to be selfish from time to time.